Kiki, Author & ex rich person on TikTok
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Kiki, Author & ex rich person on TikTok
Jun 30, 2023
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Transform Your Life with These Old Money Habits Today
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Transform Your Life with These Old Money Habits Today
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Who knew? Kiki Astor, author and ex rich person, is not just an old money and etiquette expert, she writes books! Yes, she has seven novels out (all of which explore all the old money and nouveau pauvre themes she talks about here) and has been called “beach read royalty”! Woo! A few people have realized this hidden fact and enough have asked for writing advice that I thought I would give you my top tips here. The problem is, no one wants to hear these tips. Writing is a business just like Art i
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Who knew? Kiki Astor, author and ex rich person, is not just an old money and etiquette expert, she writes books! Yes, she has seven novels out (all of which explore all the old money and nouveau pauvre themes she talks about here) and has been called “beach read royalty”! Woo! A few people have realized this hidden fact and enough have asked for writing advice that I thought I would give you my top tips here. The problem is, no one wants to hear these tips. Writing is a business just like Art i
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Yes, I will keep making old money content despite the fact that I despise the old money aesthetic. Because the real values and priorities of actual old money, people have nothing to do with the aesthetic. I really think you can live a rich life without staging photo shoots of your black tie party at a palazzo on Lake Como… but these images are so pervasive that they have colored our impression of what it is to live a happy and successful life. I’m sure I’m going to get some pushback, but I’ll ke
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Yes, I will keep making old money content despite the fact that I despise the old money aesthetic. Because the real values and priorities of actual old money, people have nothing to do with the aesthetic. I really think you can live a rich life without staging photo shoots of your black tie party at a palazzo on Lake Como… but these images are so pervasive that they have colored our impression of what it is to live a happy and successful life. I’m sure I’m going to get some pushback, but I’ll ke
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Kiki, Author & ex rich person on TikTok
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Kiki, Author & ex rich person on TikTok
Jan 28, 2023
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Exploring the Real Old Money Aesthetic Manicure
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Exploring the Real Old Money Aesthetic Manicure
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Old Money Fashion: Trashy, Tacky, or Chic?
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Old Money Fashion: Trashy, Tacky, or Chic?
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Readers have called Scarlet Fever by Kiki Astor… “Authentically old money, with secrets that will haunt you long after the last page.” “Hauntingly beautiful, suspenseful, and utterly addictive.” “A dark, romantic gothic thriller with bloodlines, forbidden desire, and chilling mysteries.” “Pemberwick stays with you. This book has the perfect mix of elegance, romance and danger- and it’s surprisingly terrifying.” | Kiki Astor
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Kiki Astor’s ultimate old money gift guide 1. A pair of handmade, cashmere-lined leather gloves in a neutral shade (tan, chestnut, sable). 2. A framed vintage engraving of their family’s favorite region. 3. A slim silver letter opener from a small English silversmith. 4. A set of linen cocktail napkins monogrammed in tone-on-tone thread. 5. A leather-bound reading journal they can use for decades. 6. A bottle of good tawny port and a box of proper dark chocolate. 7. A membership or day pass to a
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Nouveau pauvre old money hacks: How to style your affordable bag into quiet luxury, heritage style, and European elegance. Subtle luxury, timeless accessories, curated wardrobe, and polished style tips for understated chic. French Riviera vibes, English country house energy, and inherited style tricks for sophisticated, civilized fashion—even on a budget. Elevate everyday totes into classic fashion pieces with old money aesthetic techniques. | Kiki Astor
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Matching preppy old money aesthetic chic Stubbs & Wootton slippers, a Palm Beach and Greenwich icon, to Kiki Astor’s dreamy steamy old money aesthetic romance novels…which will you choose? | Kiki Astor
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Old money aesthetic Halloween costume ideas for you darlings- an oldie but goodie from your Auntie Kiki. What will you dress up as this year. Be inspired by these terrifying, sexy costumes – I’ll let you know everything you need to dress up as of the scariest, most trending things this year, along with an extra touch if you want to make the costume even scarier. Trick-or-treat! | Kiki Astor
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There’s a stereotype that old money people don’t do therapy… Here is my amusing interpretation of the old money therapist. She’s not warm and fuzzy, but she’ll get you back on your feet. This might be comedy or it might be true… Sometimes satire is the closest thing to reality, especially with old money, darling. | Kiki Astor
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Is it true that old money people do not talk about money? Ridiculous! Also remember that many so-called old money people no longer have money. They simply talk about it in code. What are your favorite phrases for “we’re rich” or “we’re poor”? | Kiki Astor
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In old money culture, understanding the four types of secrets is essential etiquette. Polite society relies on social intelligence, discretion, and the ability to manage private information without drama. Whether it’s a family secret, a social secret, a personal vulnerability, or a scandal waiting to erupt, the true hallmark of refined behavior is knowing what to share, what to safeguard, and what to let fade quietly. Old money etiquette isn’t about silence—it’s about emotional maturity, boundar
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Old Money vs. Rednecks — more alike than you think. From family land to faded heirlooms, both believe in heritage, hard work, and handling their own. Call it aristocratic grit or country pride — the codes are shockingly similar. Old money and rednecks might live worlds apart, but they share values that built them both: legacy, loyalty, and knowing who your people are. Are you Country club or county fair or a little bit of both? How Old Money and Rednecks Are More Alike Than You Think: • Hand-me-
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Everyone loves to tease old money rituals—cold plunges, morning walks, letter writing, long lunches—but here’s the thing: those “eccentric habits” were actually science-backed wellness routines before wellness was a word. From daily fresh air to eating slowly and spending time outside, these free rituals lower stress, boost longevity, and make you look effortlessly well-bred while doing it. The old money secret? They’ve been doing biohacking since before anyone was selling supplements.#oldmoney
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The truth about old money beauty? Minimal makeup, minimal routines — built on tradition, habits, and passed-down wisdom. Of course, there are outliers, like the grande dame with her theatrical signature look. As a grande dame in training, I keep my routine simple: two minutes flat… but with one signature twist: a red lip. Here’s what I used in this video: Moisturizer: Trader Joe’s (budget-friendly and fantastic). Serums: freebies — not personally recommended. Tinted sunscreen: alternating betwee
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An old money interior design rule that still works: If you own a real Persian rug, flip it over. The reverse side has a naturally lower pile, softer coloration, and a more restrained pattern, making it feel quieter, more contemporary, and easier to live with in modern interiors. Why you should not distress a rug yourself or buy a faux distressed version: Artificial distressing damages the fibers unevenly, weakens the foundation, and removes value. Faux distressed rugs imitate wear without the st
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How to choose the right old money dog (based on your reading) Scarlet Fever → English Setter Romantic, languid, aristocratic. Thrives in emotional intensity and long walks through the estate—real or imagined. Stick and Ball → Greyhound Athletic lineage, minimal fuss, deeply civilized. Looks fast. Usually found napping. Pink Palazzo → Cavalier King Charles Spaniel Decorative but sincere. Raised for drawing rooms, devotion, and being quietly adored. Palm Beach is for small trophy dogs. Villa for R
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Dog training, the old money way: admit at once that your darling spaniel will never behave like the Swiss guard. Dogs will be dogs—ours bark at the gardener, steal canapés at cocktail hour, and occasionally roll in something ghastly just before guests arrive. And truthfully, we secretly adore them for it. But if one insists upon some manners (for the sake of carpets and cocktail dresses), a few civilizing gestures are useful: a firm “no” delivered once without theatrics, rewards dispensed with r
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What is a real old money engagement like? You might have thought I’d roast Taylor Swift’s engagement photos… but actually, I feel that they’re quietly elegant and very old money adjacent. Traditional old money engagements are all about subtle luxury, heirloom-quality rings, private moments, and timeless style—never flashy or over-the-top. Usually, the photos, if any, are taken by a family member who helped to make the moment special. Many times, the couple will choose to get engaged in private,
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There’s only one appropriate color for an old money, aesthetic bedroom… If you disagree with me, make your case here! | Kiki Astor
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An old money woman learning to play Mahjong. Mahjong. Mah-jongg. Mah jong. Not because it’s trendy — but because it’s fun, social, and has a way of pulling people together around a table for hours. Tiles, snacks, gossip, laughter, strategy, patience. I’m curious — do you play Mahjong or Mah-jongg? Did you learn from friends, family, or recently? And why do you think Mahjong is suddenly everywhere again? Is it the nostalgia? The ritual? The fact that it forces us to slow down and actually sit wit
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Everyone asks how to create an old money aesthetic bedroom. They assume it’s about neutral paint colors, antiques, symmetry, restraint. They search for timeless bedroom design, quiet luxury interiors, European bedroom ideas, classic color palettes, heritage homes, aristocratic interiors. They expect ivory. They argue for cream. They defend beige like it’s a moral stance. But historically? Socially? Architecturally? The most correct bedrooms in Europe were never afraid of softness. Bedrooms were
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Would old money ever spend $160 on a lipstick—or is this peak new money behavior? Louis Vuitton just launched what might be the most egregiously expensive lipstick on the market, sparking a debate over beauty trends, luxury, and status symbols. On one hand, it’s collectible, high-design, and aspirational… for some. On the other, old money beauty is rooted in timeless elegance: a Mason Pearson hairbrush, a trusty tube of Estée Lauder or Revlon, Chanel if you’re feeling fancy—or even Burt’s Bees f
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The algorithm is still obsessed with the old money aesthetic — but here’s the problem: some people can’t tell the difference between real old money and the AI-generated fantasy of old money. The “AI old money girl” isn’t a real person, she’s an algorithmic hallucination designed to sell you fiction — and companies like Tuxedo Society are cashing in by packaging a lifestyle that doesn’t exist. Why does it matter? Because this illusion glamorizes inequality, confuses etiquette with elitism, and tu
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It’s not just having the right sort of old money aesthetic handbag that matters… you must choose the right one and style it properly. You don’t need an expensive designer bag, either. A good elegant box bag can be had on a budget. | Kiki Astor
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Which is your favorite wallpaper? Wallpaper is a very old money design touch. But some people get it terribly wrong. Here are my tips as an old money expert and ex interior decorator who has seen too many drawing rooms ruined: -Never match your wallpaper to your sofa. You’ll look like a hotel lobby. Chintz belongs in country houses, not city apartments. Context is everything. -Don’t let me catch you wallpapering a feature wall. Try wallpapering a room on all four walls as well as the ceiling. -S
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Sad about the end of Caftailing season? Get excited for velvet season. The velvet Moroccan coat is the international old money aesthetic piece you didn’t know you needed. It’s always in fashion, and it will always set you apart in the right way… How to wear it? Casually, over a T-shirt, a sweater, with leather pants or jeans… It works for evening or daytime. Trust me on this. | Kiki Astor
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